this year im deciding to do things with my life and not sit and think about them also use unfinished products in my bathroom i have a whole bathroom filled with SHOWER GELL it needs 2 go 

crystallizations:

Jamie King by Nan Goldin, 1996.

Don’t hang out with people who don’t love you. Don’t try to impress people who aren’t worth it. Don’t try to win people over who aren’t worth it. Focus on yourself, and focus on the people who are really awesome and who love you. Don’t hang out with people who make you feel like shit. Don’t spend your energy on them. There is so much pressure to be part of the right thing: well, you should create the right thing. If you don’t see it, create it. If you don’t see what you want, be the change you want to see.

— Beth Ditto (via floranymph)

Anonymous asked: Why did you steal that girl's picture for your "first personal post" about solitude???

i stated in the tags that i dont know whos photo it is! x

Anonymous asked: Sometimes I really need a day off school, like I feel nauseous and panicked at the thought of going and want a relaxing day. But my parents never let me stay home, they really value education and don't want me to miss things :-( how do I convince them?

sit them down and ask them just for one day off, dont do it often though. school is our priority and in the real werlddddd you cant just take days off, they are only preparing us and setting us up. respect their values too, and only take a day off when you realyyyyy need it x

Anonymous asked: I'm so mad at my mum, I was eating oats and she said 'there's not peanut butter on that is there? You don't need that', she subtly discourages me from eating and it makes me feel so bad. I can't tell her that bc my sister is in recovery for an ed, and if she thought it was her fault she would cry. I don't know what to do and I feel so bad

sit her down and tell her.

i had the same situation with my dad, he always says things to me like “what type of vegan crap are you making tonight” “why are you eating that hippie chocolate” “eat something real” 

it actually hurts a hell of a lot, i sat him down and i said dad please stop making comments like tat on my eating habits, and he said he didnt even realise the effect his comments had on me, hes a super dad and he just subconsciously commented on them, and i forgive him! so sit her down and tell her xx

Anonymous asked: My mum wants me to go out with the family to this stupid thing and I just wanna stay home but she's saying nope your coming she said u have been sitting at home for three days u have to get out. But I just wanna stay home! What should I dooo x

i hate when that happens, but just go out. honestly, i know it will be a drag but you will feel good (or atleast you should) for seeing your family! x

Anonymous asked: Are you straight or gay?

i think labeling sexuality is stupid, especially at age 14. like one day you might fall in love with a boy and be with him for say„„ 10 years „, then one day you might meet a girl and fall in love with her and be with her. i believe in leaving it open so im not shutting myself off to things i dont know about. so no labels for me, labels are silly xx

Anonymous asked: hey where did you buy your boyfriend jeans from and what brand are they??

topshop ! 

so please ask yourself: what would i do if i weren’t afraid? and then go do it.

— sheryl sandberg (via sugarlou)

Anonymous asked: how are you going to pay for an apartment in Paris and stuff ??? how will you afford

a job. please dont ask me questions like this x

Anonymous asked: your post!!!beautiful!!!could read it forever

love love love that makes me so happy 

Anonymous asked: SOPHIAA WHERE IS THIS POST EVERYONE TALKING ABOUT I LOVE YOU XXX

http://mild-bloom.tumblr.com/post/83766316765/solitude-is-bliss-the-love-for-being-alone-has 

i love you 

Anonymous asked: where can i find the post everyone is talking about ??

http://mild-bloom.tumblr.com/post/83766316765/solitude-is-bliss-the-love-for-being-alone-has